{"id":6305,"date":"2010-07-27T06:20:15","date_gmt":"2010-07-27T12:20:15","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/christianfighterpilot.com\/blog\/?p=6305"},"modified":"2013-10-03T20:50:49","modified_gmt":"2013-10-03T23:50:49","slug":"military-works-to-strengthen-marriages","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/christianfighterpilot.com\/blog\/2010\/07\/27\/military-works-to-strengthen-marriages\/","title":{"rendered":"Military Works to Strengthen Marriages"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>In the debate on the policy commonly known as &#8220;Don&#8217;t Ask, Don&#8217;t Tell,&#8221; some have <a href=\"http:\/\/christianfighterpilot.com\/blog\/2010\/06\/09\/dadt-repeal-clear-and-present-threat-to-religious-liberty\/#comment-7777\">taken to saying<\/a> service by open homosexuals is no morally different to religion than is service by those who have divorced and\/or remarried.\u00a0 That argument fails, however, because the military works actively to <a href=\"http:\/\/christianfighterpilot.com\/blog\/2008\/12\/06\/support-for-military-marriages\/\">support marriages and prevent divorce<\/a>:\u00a0 <!--more--><\/p>\n<blockquote><p>After recognizing an alarming increase in divorce rates among military personnel in 2004, the Army set out to reverse the trend by spending $2 million on a variety of marriage programs&#8230;[One] program [was] designed to provide Soldiers, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.army.mil\/-news\/2010\/06\/28\/41514-new-unit-program-helps-soldiers-flatten-the-wave\/\">who are facing a potential divorce or break-up<\/a>, with information to assist in &#8220;flattening the relational wave when they hit the beach for redeployment and reintegration.&#8221;<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<blockquote><p>There is, perhaps, no sadder sight than a once loved wedding ring that has been discarded and thrown in the corner of a dresser drawer or sitting in the window of a dank and dirty downtown pawn shop&#8230;All of this is the tragic results of forgetting that <a href=\"http:\/\/www.quantico.usmc.mil\/Sentry\/storyview.aspx?SID=4283\">marriage is a gift from God<\/a> and is to be treasured and preserved.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>A military Chaplain or member is free to highlight the negatives of divorce; the US military recognizes the strengths that strong families and marriages provide to the service.\u00a0 By the same token, &#8220;remarriage&#8221; is not a protected class within the military.\u00a0 Within the bounds of respectful discourse, military members are free to disagree, and express such disagreement, on the morality or correctness of remarriage.<\/p>\n<p>On the other hand, speculation about military policies under a repealed DADT (&#8220;speculation&#8221; because no official paths have been announced or formalized) has been that sexual preference would be a protected class, and military members would <em>not<\/em> be free to discuss the negatives, or disagree on the morality, of homosexuality.<\/p>\n<p>Thus, the military&#8217;s treatment of the two issues is different, and the suggested impact to religious freedom in the military is different as well.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>In the debate on the policy commonly known as &#8220;Don&#8217;t Ask, Don&#8217;t Tell,&#8221; 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