{"id":12072,"date":"2011-07-27T02:30:08","date_gmt":"2011-07-27T07:30:08","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/christianfighterpilot.com\/blog\/?p=12072"},"modified":"2013-10-14T16:36:35","modified_gmt":"2013-10-14T19:36:35","slug":"in-face-of-dadt-repeal-us-air-force-bans-pda","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/christianfighterpilot.com\/blog\/2011\/07\/27\/in-face-of-dadt-repeal-us-air-force-bans-pda\/","title":{"rendered":"In Face of DADT Repeal, US Air Force Bans PDA"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Can you hold hands while in uniform?\u00a0 How about a kiss or embrace?<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" alt=\"\" src=\"http:\/\/www.christianfighterpilot.com\/images\/navykiss.jpg\" width=\"474\" height=\"491\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Believe it or not, those are some of the most often asked questions by new officers and enlisted &#8212; and in most cases, the answer wasn&#8217;t clear.\u00a0 Now, however, it&#8217;s in plain English:\u00a0 If you choose to do those things in uniform, you may well be in violation of the new Air Force regulations.<\/p>\n<p>Last year, the <em>Report of the Comprehensive Review of the Issues Associated with a Repeal of &#8220;Don\u2019t Ask, Don\u2019t Tell&#8221;<\/em>, otherwise known as the <a href=\"http:\/\/christianfighterpilot.com\/blog\/2010\/12\/01\/dadt-survey-doesn%e2%80%99t-say-what-you-think-it-says%e2%80%a6\/\">report on the DADT survey<\/a>, noted the &#8216;sensitivities&#8217; of public displays of affection with respect to homosexuality.\u00a0 The working group made this observation:\u00a0 <!--more--><\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Rules concerning public displays of affection and proper dress and appearance&#8230;are largely unwritten and vary by Service and across commands&#8230;However displays of affection &#8212; especially while in uniform &#8212; are informally discouraged in all the Services as a matter of individual Service culture, traditions, and decorum.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>As a result, the team recommended a change:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>We also recommend that the Department of Defense instruct the Services to review their current standards of personal and professional conduct to&#8230;provide adequate guidance to the extent each Service considers appropriate on unprofessional relationships, harassment, public displays of affection, and dress and appearance.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>The Air Force apparently listened, adding a section on PDA to the new Dress and Personal Appearance regulation.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.e-publishing.af.mil\/shared\/media\/epubs\/AFI36-2903.pdf\">Air Force Instruction (AFI) 36-2903<\/a>, published\u00a0just this past\u00a018 July 2011,\u00a0contains the following paragraph:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>2.13.6. When in uniform or civilian clothes (in an official capacity), Airmen must not engage in public displays of affection including, but not limited to, holding hands (except when holding a young child\u2019s hand), walking arm-in-arm, embracing, caressing, and kissing.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>In a departure from most military regulations, the next line explains <em>why <\/em>the rule is in place:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Public displays of affection are inappropriate as they violate a long-standing custom of the service and may be service discrediting since indiscriminate displays of affection detract from the professional image the Air Force intends to project to the public.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>In case you&#8217;re wondering about kissing the bride at your wedding (in your mess uniform) or the embraces of troops returning home from war, there&#8217;s an exception.\u00a0 Sort of.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>2.13.6.1. Brief displays of affection, such as a modest kiss or embrace, may be permitted in situations where physical contact is commonly accepted etiquette such as weddings, graduation, promotion, or retirement ceremonies; and upon departure for or return from deployments.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>This is noteworthy because, as the DADT working group noted, the Air Force had never formalized those rules before.\u00a0 The prior version of AFI 36-2903, still available in some internet locations, never discussed PDA.\u00a0 In fact, if you web search Air Force PDA, you will likely get <em>many <\/em>regulations &#8212; but they&#8217;re almost entirely ROTC or other training-level instructions.\u00a0 That may be why there is an underlying <em>assumption <\/em>about rules\u00a0against PDA &#8212; that&#8217;s what was\u00a0taught in training.\u00a0 As the new AFI notes, however, in the operational Air Force those were actually just &#8220;long-standing customs.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>As for the famous photo of the Sailor celebrating V-J day in New York&#8217;s Times Square?\u00a0 He wasn&#8217;t returning from war, and he certainly wasn&#8217;t getting married.\u00a0 But he also wasn&#8217;t in the Air Force, so he&#8217;d have been ok.<\/p>\n<p class=\"smallfont\">Photo\u00a0by the U.S. Navy,\u00a014 August 1945.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Can you hold hands while in uniform?\u00a0 How about a kiss or embrace? 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